What is happening
I'm not sure why the Crispin Glover thing, but I'm glad. Specific gestures. Make myself perfectly clear. Seems about right.
I'm really upset that some of that punx is rappers song is now playing through my head, but I guess that's my own fault. That was way not good.
Anywho have you ever been screamed at about how rape is bad, and how the person screaming it would "NOT RAPE YOU" and like can you maybe see why that would be weird? I know it seems counter-intuitive, but I'm actually highly weary of folks who strongarm force an identity of being anti-rape culture and the like. Maybe it's from knowing people who have used such an identity as a ruse, fronting a safe person, or maybe it's because strongarming an identity is just something to be weirded out by.
Also I'm not really sure who refers to themselves as "a genderqueer" rather than genderqueer.
So yeah definitely nothing wrong with your identity nor stance, these are just my feelings that I'm feeling. Board seemed a little slow so I thought I'd share.